.-Deny-.
.-. ..You will never find a love a true as Mine.. .-.
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Post by .-Deny-. on Dec 25, 2005 21:56:54 GMT -8
People who lie..
What the point? does the truth not usually reveal itself? People who lie get under my skin, I just can not stand it. Zero Tolerance for it...
Be yourself..what do you have to loose? Why try to be something you are not.. Seems rather pointless eh?
Nice guys never get the good girls.. Does it not happen all the time? You find this girl you really like and would give so much for her..but the bad guy always ends up catching her attention..and you no longer exist to her.. and you have to sit back and watch the guy treat her like poo..
And us nice guys? What do we get? of course..the bad girls.. The ones who lead you on.. act like you are their whole damn life..and then poof...they cheat on you..they lie to you... rip your heart out and stomp on it.. how can anyone do that to another person?
What exactly does it mean to "love" someone? Loving someone should be loving them for who they are inside. Not on the outside. One shouldnt have limits like..if the person is over 160 pounds..they are not worth anything.. Loving someone for the way they look is pathetic.. Loving them no matter how they look on the outside..Accepting them for the way they are.. True beauty is on the inside, not the outside.. When you love someone you should not be ashamed of it.. You should not be afraid to let the world know just exactly how you feel about the person.. Love is being honest and faithful with your partner.. not lying, and cheated around..and respect your partner.. they should be much more than just your "chick" or "hot guy"...Someone who loves you for more than just sex.. You can find anyone tho hold your hand.. You can find anyone to say "I love you"...But finding someone who means everyword they say to you.. Finding someone who aches when you are not near..is rare..those are the kind you want to hang onto..
Friendship? What is a true friend? One that is honest.. One that doesnt turn their back on you when things get hard.. One thats gonna be there for you One that your gonna be there for One that wont totally shun you out of their life when they find some new love One that accepts you for who you are..the good and the bad..
There are a lot of evil people out in this world. You must be careful in those who you trust. People are always good with words and can fool you so easily..
We tend to let the wrongs ones in and never let the right ones in.. and ultimately we end up causing much hurt to those who really do care..
I don't know what the whole point of this post is... Guess I just felt like venting some:)
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Post by April on Dec 26, 2005 6:27:22 GMT -8
awww.. yeah I have to agree with you on everything you said. It's already extremely difficult for me to trust anyone, especially with the shit that I found out about my last ex... just was totally unexpected to me... but yeah, there are alot of cruel people out there who only care about themselves and nothing else. and people wonder why it's so hard to just trust others... people who wonder that probably haven't had all this shit happen to them... but yeah I hope you are feeling better now that you got that off your chest
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~*Verlichten*~
Sometimes, Miss Independent wants to be rescued...
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Post by ~*Verlichten*~ on Dec 30, 2005 12:11:15 GMT -8
Yeah, I have to agree to. It all those bad people in our lives, the ones who are selfish and have no consideration for the other person and how they feel that make it hard to trust anyone. It those people who are good with words that easily fool you and then when someone comes along that truely feels it, you no longer know what to believe. Its hard Its also hard to find a true friend. I thought that I had one, but over somthing really trivial and petty I lost my best friend. She found a little bit of popularity , I was feeling left out and I confronted her on it and she didnt want to talk to me anymore. Yeah, its hard
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Post by April on Dec 31, 2005 12:04:15 GMT -8
Its also hard to find a true friend. Couldn't agree with you more. They are so rare to find. I recently just lost a friend of about 6 years... I really didn't think we would ever stop being friends, but somewhere throughout the past year or so, it happened. Sucks, but that's just a part of life.
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.-Deny-.
.-. ..You will never find a love a true as Mine.. .-.
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Post by .-Deny-. on Dec 31, 2005 22:40:49 GMT -8
"the ones who are selfish and have no consideration for the other person and how they feel that make it hard to trust anyone. It those people who are good with words that easily fool you and then when someone comes along that truely feels it, you no longer know what to believe. Its hard"
Its extremely hard
Its very hard to open yourself up to someone new
and it seems to be those people who you trust the most.. that always seem to end up crushing you..
its like a never ending game.. and it gets harder and harder everytime to allow people to have the chance to prove they are not like the others who are only out to hurt you and others..
Mind games.. Playing with words.. Lies..
all so pathetic..
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JoEviL
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Post by JoEviL on Jan 8, 2006 16:12:10 GMT -8
wow, uh,ass a nice guy (aka a little..nerdy?) i know exactly what your talking about!
during middle school there was this really great girl named amanda
well i tried but she totally blew me off to go with another drummer who treated her like crap
so true, the only good one i had was one taht was unpopular, because, she was, obese
the last one was a girl who slept around on me so many times and she kept acting so sorry that i couldn't help but give in and it all came down to HER actually leaving me
adn you know what, i get messages that sometimes her current, uh, butt buddy, has left her and she "misses me so much, whish we could be back together" yadda yadda
and the next one my mother learned the hard way
Friendship? What is a true friend? (dad's relationship) One that is honest.. (ha, he lied to stuff we knew he was lying about, up till today) One that doesnt turn their back on you (how many times has he left up carrying the blaim, even when it was totally his falt!) when things get hard..( when things got hard he was usually busy beating me) One thats gonna be there for you (be there for us? sure he was here all the time, in his undewear on his computer jacking off to porn) One that your gonna be there for (thats what he was living off, we cooked, we worked, we cleaned, and he had a free ride to hell, well hes still going to hell, but now it aint us who's giving him the free ride till then!) One that wont totally shun you out of their life(i dont think i wanted to be in it) when they find some new love(ha, i hope for somone elses sake he dosen't find another unless that ones EXACTLY LIKE HIM, then they can end up killilng eachother) One that accepts you for who you are..the good and the bad.. (my ma is such a great person she gave that asshole so many chances because she beleived he could change, and he promised so much from stopping what he was to counciling, he never did any of it)
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