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Nov 21, 2004 10:45:38 GMT -8
Post by April on Nov 21, 2004 10:45:38 GMT -8
damn I think I can safely say that my ex is a complete and total PSYCHO! He makes me so fucking angry, beyond belief. I'm not really sure what to do, he doesn't like the fact that I'm with someone else besides him. I guess you can tell how my day has gone so far. I can't even say anything else, I'm just too pissed off.
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robbie
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Nov 22, 2004 19:30:49 GMT -8
Post by robbie on Nov 22, 2004 19:30:49 GMT -8
yeah,i know what you mean there,its kind of a natural reaction that men have though,but you are right,it can get annoying
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Nov 22, 2004 19:55:45 GMT -8
Post by April on Nov 22, 2004 19:55:45 GMT -8
natural reaction or not, it doesn't do anything but cause me more pain than I'm willing to deal with right now ??? I think I do understand how he feels, but the funny thing is, he was also with someone else (he broke up with her the night we had that huge fight) and I didn't freak out on him like that, simply because I wanted him to be happy and move on with his life. He's just really acting selfish, I get the feeling that he just wants me to get back wtih him and be miserable in order for him to be happy again, and he doesn't even care about my feelings as long as I'm not with anyone besides him.
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robbie
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Nov 22, 2004 21:08:57 GMT -8
Post by robbie on Nov 22, 2004 21:08:57 GMT -8
Yeah,that is one of the biggest problems nowdays that i notice,is that men dont care about how they treat their girlfriends/spouses etc. and i can imagine that that does hurt you a bit,but believe me there are better men out there than him,and hopefully you will find the right one someday If you feel like talking with me more about this,id be glad to help,im not really a expert,but i might be able to help
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JoEviL
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Crackin' since: November 2004
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Nov 23, 2004 10:42:43 GMT -8
Post by JoEviL on Nov 23, 2004 10:42:43 GMT -8
hey hey hey...not all men are like this, if my girl leavs me, weather for another man or some other reason, i let them go... but with my last x...when we just started going out, she had this stalker over at taft HS and he had a lopsided eye and it always wore camos, i think he was in rotc, anyway that was freaky
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Nov 23, 2004 12:12:46 GMT -8
Post by April on Nov 23, 2004 12:12:46 GMT -8
Yeah,that is one of the biggest problems nowdays that i notice,is that men dont care about how they treat their girlfriends/spouses etc. and i can imagine that that does hurt you a bit,but believe me there are better men out there than him,and hopefully you will find the right one someday If you feel like talking with me more about this,id be glad to help,im not really a expert,but i might be able to help thanks robbie it's kind of you to offer, and its ok that you're not an expert lol, it's the thought that counts, right? I might just have to take you up on that sometime, because it's really starting to stress me out. hey hey hey...not all men are like this, if my girl leavs me, weather for another man or some other reason, i let them go... but with my last x...when we just started going out, she had this stalker over at taft HS and he had a lopsided eye and it always wore camos, i think he was in rotc, anyway that was freaky true, not all guys are like that, but most of them are. or in my case I just tend to attract the psychos, yet not be able to realize it until it's too late. oh well. and yeah stalking is serious business, I've had my share of that, that guy does sound pretty freaky. one of my exes went to Taft HS, did you ever know a guy named Ruben?
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robbie
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Nov 23, 2004 13:09:23 GMT -8
Post by robbie on Nov 23, 2004 13:09:23 GMT -8
anytime that you want to talk,i will be glad to
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samuraix
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Nov 25, 2004 16:28:27 GMT -8
Post by samuraix on Nov 25, 2004 16:28:27 GMT -8
I dont really know much about this kind of stuff seeing that I'm just 16. But, why dont you tell him that you've moved on so he should to. Or...something like that, my way didnt come out right.
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Nov 26, 2004 4:57:44 GMT -8
Post by April on Nov 26, 2004 4:57:44 GMT -8
Kyo, yeah you'd think that would work... but the thing is, I have told him numerous times that he needs to move on but he tells me that it's just not the same with anyone else as it was with me, the connection between them is not as deep, and I really just don't know what to tell him after that. and no matter how angry he makes me, I can't seem to just cut him totally out of my life, I really want him to be happy again. See I just tend to overlook my own happiness if I know someone close to me is in pain and I know that his pain is directly caused by me, and that just makes me feel horrible. But anyways, thanks, I know what you're saying and I only wish it were that easy.
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robbie
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Nov 26, 2004 6:17:50 GMT -8
Post by robbie on Nov 26, 2004 6:17:50 GMT -8
okay,i think i really know the solution then,you need to let him know that you want whatever makes him happy,no matter what that is,and then when he says what would make him happy,go with it,regardless of what it is. Because if its you he is happy with,and you reject him,he may not be truly happy with anyone else,which is kind of a difficult point to understand at first
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